The website of Lutheran Forum has become, for better or worse, all ELCA sex talk all the time. In this post, Sarah Wilson distinguishes two kinds of arguments that proponents of changing existing policy are making:

One argument is simply this: homosexual activity is not a sin. That is, as long as it follows other biblical precepts like fidelity and lifelong commitment; but as such, it is not sinful.

The general support for this is the argument that homosexual activity in this faithful and lifelong framework was simply not known to the biblical writers; the only kind of homosexual activity they knew was promiscuous, or idolatrous, but not the kind commended nowadays. This argument has the merit of straightforwardness. The best defender of it as far as I can tell is Chris Scharen (needless to say there are quite a number of points he makes I’d take issue with—but still, credit is due).

The other argument, considerably more widespread, and ironically coming from most of our “teaching theologians,” is fairly garbled and incoherent, but if you can draw it out from the tangle, it says essentially: it doesn’t matter whether it’s a sin, because God forgives everything, gospel trumps law, all is grace, and (it seems hard to avoid this conclusion, though it is not said outright either) everyone will be saved anyway. The documents up for vote in a few weeks imply as much when they say we only have to agree about the gospel, but ethics don’t matter for the unity of the church—a bizarre assertion that probably wouldn’t hold if the sin in question were racist hate crimes, child molestation, or searching for nonexistent weapons of mass destruction in foreign countries.

I agree with her that the first argument is stronger; in fact, I think it’s true and sound. Curiously, she doesn’t cite any specific person making a form of the second argument, which raises suspicions that it’s a bit of a caricature. After all, to say that “ethics don’t matter for the unity of the church” is, as Ms. Wilson rightly points out, “a bizarre assertion.” So I would be surprised to find anyone actually making such an assertion and prepared to strongly disagree with them.

What some people have argued (including me) is that diversity on moral judgment exists, is probably inevitable, and, to some extent, should be embraced. Lutherans agree in opposing hate crimes (though, probably not on hate crime legislation), child molestation, and searching for nonexistent weapons of mass destruction (though, again, probably not on whether the Iraq war might nevertheless have been justified).

The fact that she selects such obvious examples of consensus actually highlights the many areas where there isn’t consensus. I mentioned a few in my previous post: war and peace, abortion, government’s role in alleviating poverty and regulating the economy. Lutherans have traditionally seen these as matters for the first (or political) use of the law, and to be determined by human judgment informed by the best available knowledge. They aren’t matters of revealed truth.

When it comes to the blessing of same-sex relationships and the rostering of non-celibate gay and lesbian pastors, we face a similar diversity of views. My personal view is that we have good grounds for affirming same-sex relationships, given that we know, by the observation of the lives of many gay and lesbian couples, that those relationships can exhibit the fruits of the Spirit, provide their participants with the great goods of love and companionship, provide bulwarks against sin, and build up the communities of which they’re a part. Just like heterosexual marriages.

But, as we all know, there are many folks in the church unconvinced by this, either because they think the Bible condemns all same-sex relationships, not just exploitative or promiscuous ones;* they think that the traditional teaching of the church must be maintained; or for other more discreditable reasons. Where we can, we should assume good faith on the part of those who uphold the traditional teaching (and hope they’d extend the same charity). Hence, we should all look for ways of living together that respect the different conclusions we’ve arrived at here as in other areas.

I think the policy being considered by the ELCA is best understood both as an attempt to permit us to continue to live and worship and serve together and as an attempt to open up spaces where new ways of living as Christians can be tested. As St. Paul says: “Test all things; hold fast what is good.”

Just as in a federal system of government, states can function as “laboratories of democracy,” we might see “structured flexibility” as an attempt to create laboratories of the spirit–spaces where the goodness of same-sex relationships, supported by their congregations, can be shown forth to the rest of the church.

This isn’t–or at least it shouldn’t be–a matter of straight people generously “including” LGBT people in the church. Christ has already done that through baptism and the Spirit. This, fundamentally, is why the church should find ways to provide structures of support to LGBT individuals and couples, while respecting, where appropriate, the “bound consciences” of those who differ. This is not some vulgar moral relativism, but an honest recognition of where we disagree and how we might move forward as a church.

One might observe at this point the patience being displayed by many of our LGBT members here. We heterosexuals aren’t under the burden of “proving” the value or legitimacy of our relationships to the wider church. Even the minimal standards that heterosexuals are expected to observe are rarely enforced (what is the attitude of most ELCA congregations toward straight couples who live together before marriage, for instance?). Meanwhile, gay people have their lives put on trial. In fact, I feel like I’m being presumptuous even writing about this because it’s not my relationship (or calling) that’s at stake, and I certainly don’t have the authority to speak on any else’s behalf. But I do think it’s important to be clear that what’s being proposed is not some lapse into antinomianism.
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*Though, as Lutheran biblical scholar Arland Hultgren has pointed out, even if the exegetical judgment that the Bible does not condemn same-sex relationships per se turns out to be wrong, we still need a consistent hermeneutic. He cites in particular the church’s changed attitude toward divorce and remarriage. See: Being Faithful to the Scriptures: Romans 1:26-27 as a Case in Point.