Let me try and give a concrete example of why I’m not clear on the practical upshot of the realist/sectarian distinction.
Last night I was re-reading Stanley Hauerwas’s essay “Abortion Theologically Understood”. His main contention is that the church should not get bogged down in the debate over rights, whether that be the “right to life” or the “right to choose.” Rather, the church should be a community of radical hospitality ready to welcome new life whenever and wherever it appears.
This means, in very concrete terms, that churches should support – financially, emotionally, and spiritually – the women in their midst who are facing unexpected or difficult pregnancies and be willing to continue to support those women and their children.
What it means to be the church is to be a group of people called out of the world, and back into the world, to embody the hope of the Kingdom of God. Children are not necessary for the growth of the Kingdom, because the church can call the stranger into her midst. That makes both singleness and marriage possible vocations. If everybody has to marry, then marriage is a terrible burden. But the church does not believe that everybody has to marry. Even so, those who do not marry are also parents within the church, because the church is now the true family. The church is a family into which children are brought and received. It is only within that context that it makes sense for the church to say, “We are always ready to receive children. We are always ready to receive children.” The people of God know no enemy when it comes to children.
I think this is right on the money and that the church should strive to be the kind of community where no woman ever feels like she has to have an abortion.
However, Hauerwas gives an interesting answer to a question:
QUESTION #1: What about abortion in American society at large? That is, in your opinion, what would be the best abortion law for our society?
HAUERWAS: The church is not nearly at the point where she can concern herself with what kind of abortion law we should have in the United States or even in the state of North Carolina. Instead, we should start thinking about what it means for Christians to be the kind of community that can make a witness to the wider society about these matters. […]
In this kind of a setting, Christians witness to wider society first of all not by lobbying for a law against abortion, but by welcoming the children that the wider society does not want. Part of that witness might be to say to our pro-choice friends, “You are absolutely right. I don’t think that any poor woman ought to be forced to have a child that she cannot afford. So let’s work hard for an adequate child allowance in this country.” That may not be entirely satisfactory, but that is one approach.
Now this is the part I find puzzling. Why can’t I agree that a primary task of the church is to show the rest of society what it means to be a community that welcomes new life and support (say) a partial-birth abortion ban? Can’t we do both?
In fairness to Hauerwas, I don’t know where he stands on such a ban, but if we can lobby for a child allowance (or a living wage or whatever) why not also legal restrictions on the killing of the unborn? The “sectarian” position seems at times to accept the liberal boilerplate that you can’t “impose your religious views” on the rest of society. But it’s not as though only Christians can have reasons for opposing abortion (or supporting economic justice, caring for the environment, etc.). If such a consensus is possible, why not take advantage of it?